How to get along with people you work with


You probably spend more time with the people you work with than almost anyone else, so your social life at work depends a great deal on your coworkers. It is vital and helpful to have a good relationship with them, as they will impact your life in many ways.

How would you feel going to a workplace where you have a poor relationship with your colleagues? Of course, it’s not a good feeling. On the other hand, you will feel a lot better about  going to work every day if you are going to a working environment where everyone present gets along and appreciates each other.

We are going to look at a few tips that can help you get along smoothly with your colleagues in the workplace.

Respect your colleagues.

Respect is a virtue, and you should try to give respect to all of your colleagues, no matter what position they hold. The simplest way of showing this is by trying to make things feel right for everyone. Avoid offensive language and things that may bring division. For instance, take responsibility for what you have done wrong instead of blaming someone else for your actions. In cases when your colleague doesn’t like a certain behavior, try avoiding such issues. The more you respect your colleagues, they more they will respect you.

Don’t bring up cringe-worthy topics

While at work, always try to avoid topics that may end up causing drama and uproar among your colleagues. Topics that trigger strong emotions and opinions should not be discussed. People’s perspectives are different, and discussing such topics may bring quarrels and misunderstanding. Example of such subjects include politics, religions, and beliefs.

Get your workplace relationships off to a good start

When starting a new job, stress and discomfort are part and parcel of the new challenges. Build your relationships with your co-workers from the first day. Make everyone feel that you have positively impacted their lives, being willing to ask questions and answer your colleagues politely whenever they are in need of your help. When colleagues invite you to join them for lunch, try to agree, and if you are committed elsewhere, explain that to them.

Find a way to get along with everyone, even the most difficult people

You can’t be friend with everyone, but you should try being good to everyone. Don’t show them if you disapprove of their character or behavior. Some people may be annoying but try as much as possible to get along with them.

Learn good office etiquette

When you need assistance, ask politely instead of making demands. This is a good way to show your colleagues that you respect them and their time. If you are making a phone call to your family members or an office call, try making it in a way that doesn’t attract attention, and leave the room if you might be disruptive.

Don’t gossip

Gossip has landed many people in trouble. Keep your conversations away from gossip, and instead discuss topics that won’t upset anyone. Your co-workers will feel unhappy if they realize that you have been talking about them behind their backs. Mind what you talk about and with whom you are talking.